23 April 2011

END of!

Let me just take the time to get one thing straight, i do not wish to turn my blog that i have worked hard on for 3years to turn into some stupid bitching ground seriously. Do not email me with a useless apology if you are going to carry on bitching and saying stuff on facebook, words mean nothing when you don't realize what it is that you have done, I have not taken this to heart i am just pissed off that people think they can waste their time saying horrible things about people and think once they have been pulled up on it that they are innocent and being picked on take your crap else where, i do not have time to waste on this silly situation.

my followers mean alot to me i do not use them to stick up for me or be on my side, i have not forced my opinion on anybody and if you think it is funny to use this situation to gain hits or followers then really that is not real blogging.

And to comment and say that i have made people unjustifiably hate you, please do not pretend what you did was bought on by anyone but yourself, you took pen to paper and believe me i was not flattered in anyway, do not get me wrong i am not stuck up, i am far from it, i understand how hard it is to be creative and inspired by people, but to copy not just me but others is ridiculous, you will get no where in life doing that. Take this as an insult or not i am not really in anyway bothered, you are the first person i have encountered on line in the 3/4years (since having this blog)  that has been rude and rather abusive to me, i know that you have commented on other peoples blogs being rude and they have let you get away saying horrible things to them, i believe any rudeness or bullying shouldnt be stood for in anyway.

As for you saying that you weren't going to sell the drawings this is not at all important, it is the cheek of the situation, i am not bothered if you wouldn't spend £20 on a drawing by me, there are plenty of other people to get them from, i love illustrating for people who respect my work. This is my profession my job and what my life is about, when you have gone and built yourself up with hard work then come back to me and have an opinion on being flattered by someone blatantly ripping you off, slagging you off on your own facebook and saying that i should feel sorry for you because you wanted a bracelet or a blog header making, dont play the pitty game it doesnt work with me, to get somewhere in life it involves having balls, respect and confidence to know that you were wrong, that you have worked hard achieved something and made something of yourself, slagging, ripping peoples work off is not worth the time or internet space. If you wish to be inspired by people dont say that you werent copying me and then put a bitchy blog post up saying how childish the situation is, if this is the way you treat inspiring people i would hate the way you treat people you dont like???

" i think she hates me for ever ! I have sincerely apologised to her via email as I wish not to be enemies with such an inspirational person"

The wonderful emma Lou wrote a post about me and the situation, please do not spread this hatred on to other peoples blogs by spreading comments it really wont get you anywhere i am not saying dont have an opinion i am saying do not spread crap onto other people blogs, this situation will go away, and it will not matter next week believe me. People copy my work all the time, it is just i hate the way you talk about people......... Apparently i need to "get off my fat arse and get a life" i always find people that say this need to get one themselves and not spend their time hating on people. And can i just add i have lost 2 stone and no longer have a fat arse but thank you for being so kind. If you wish to insult me aim it at something other things not my weight, doesn't effect me i have been a bit of a fatty all my life so i have a thick skin so don't go there.

Believe me there was no miss-understanding here, i do not hate you i dont even know you but from what you have put online it does not give off a good persona, and please stop saying 'no one wants to know my side of the story' dont start things with insults nothing has been blown out of proportion take the time to get on with your life and stop, saying people are copying you, the world hates you and no one listens to you if i am so 'inspiring' take the time and think before you speak.


I have written this post not to gain followers, i have written this to get this out the way before you decide to comment on every post until i give up with you. I have also written this so people realize that rudeness will not get you anywhere in life. And if i am honest i couldn't care less because no one else does. I do not want to speak about this after this post has gone out.

Do not use social networking sites to openly bitch about me..... i have put i pledge against any forms of hate, because i do not want you spreading you hate anywhere else, i am not in anyway hypocritical, i am setting the record straight before you carry this situation any further and as i said "i do not hate you" please grow up. At the end of the day this blog is about inspiring people, not sharing shitty negativity .
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  1. I am so pleased you wrote this post,I have noticed so many people writing blogs for popularity rather than fun and so many people copying others, well done on losing the two stone. . .I am trying to lose weight how did u do it?xx

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  2. curvy girls for the win ella <3 xxx

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  3. a) you have not always been a bit of a fatty, because you are not a bit of a fatty! you're slimmer than most <3

    b) quite frankly, she's an immature little person. i have seen her comments and to just half heartedly apologize for large insults doesn't cut it. especially if she whines about it in public..


    woohoo for you being a mature lovely! <3

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  5. you say all that charlotte then you bitch about her on facebook. and block me trololol..

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  7. Oh and don't worry about the pendant anymore :)

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  8. I'm deleting all my comments because I am not going to beg for your apology because it makes me look stupider. At the end of the day I know im human and im allowed to say wrong things and say sorry. because im not perfect. but yes you just keep on making me look like an evil witch because I know I am not and if people come onto my blog they will know that. I dont know where you got this whole negative judgement of me because you dont even know me.

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  9. wonderfully put ella. i think that post isnt just realted to the blogging world but in reality too.
    keep doing what your doing.
    xxx

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